I've been setting goals since I was a kid. (Yeah, I was "one of those" kids!) But recently, I've been getting more questions about how to set goals. So I decided to dedicate some of this month's blog posts to sharing what I've learned about goal setting.
Warning: Very little of what I'll share is original. What I've learned really is a product of the books I've read and the people I've learned from.
For me, goals are not just about achievement. I believe a good goal setting program is really about increasing the quality of your life. So, it’s important to have a wide-view in setting your goals.
Rather than simply focusing on setting your professional goals, include personal goals, family goals, social goals--all the goals that will make the next year amazing for you. The best way I’ve found to do that, is by listing out 100 things you want to do next year. Goals, dreams, fantasies, goofiness. Get it all onto a list.
Your 100 Goals & Dreams
Why 100? The first 10 or so are relatively easy. But 11 to 30 are hard. Doing 100 makes you dig deep. After you push through this first hard spot, you’ll find yourself start including goofy ideas on the list. Go for it.
Treat this list like a brainstorm: don’t qualify what you put down. Telling yourself an idea is dumb will completely shut down your creativity.
In the MagnetGoals Workbook, I have a worksheet to help with this. It can also be useful to think of listing goals for various areas of your life including:
- Life-long Learning
The first time you do this, it might be easier to do a list of 100 things to do in your life (ie. before you die). But doing it each year is incredibly beneficial too.
Also, if you’ve done this in the before, don’t worry about repeating items from the past. I seem to always have things like “Appear on Oprah” in my list. Just write it down and get 100 lines filled.
Let the list of goals sit
Getting the 100 lines filled is tough. Now put the list away for a couple days. I'm convinced that if you did nothing else but write down your goals and put them in a drawer, you'd be amazed at how much you'd accomplish. I think Maxwell Maltz has a point when he says we have "a built-in goal-seeking mechanism" built into each of us (in his Psycho-Cybernetics [amazon affiliate link]).
Don't worry, you'll do more with this list. But for the next few days, take a break.
Write a history from the future
Now review the list, reading every goal, dream, and goofy idea. Then take a clean sheet of paper and write a "history from the future." Project yourself forward 12 months and write a journal entry as though you'd accomplished everything on the list. Answer questions like:
- How would you feel with all those goals accomplished?
- What would the people in your life say?
- What awards would you have won?
- How are your interpersonal relationships?
Try to feel the emotions and "recall" the experiences.
Review the list, looking for goals that jump out at you
Now look over your list again and circle or highlight the goals that seem to jump out at you. This may seem like a weird step, but give it a shot. Just review the list and pay attention to goals that pique your interest.
Don't try to make it make sense. These goals become your MagnetGoals, goals that will provide direction to your life like magnetic north provides direction for a compass. As you go through the list, you'll notice some of the goals are ones that involve lots of other goals on your list. But others will simply stand on their own.
These MagnetGoals are the ones to focus on for the next 12 months. Though the number varies, there will probably be only five or seven goals. If there are more than will fit on an index card, you might want to pare the list down a bit.
In the MagnetGoals Workbook, I share a worksheet to help you create a roadmap for accomplishing each of your goals. While you'll focus on these goals daily for the next 12 months, I'd encourage you to review the list of 100 quarterly, making notes as goals are accomplished.
Each quarter, you'll be amazed at how many things you've accomplished, even without daily focusing on them!
It's your life
It's your life, so set your own goals. Obviously, many of the goals that will increase your quality of life will be the ones you'll do for you employer or board of directors. But having the other goals is incredibly helpful. In the workbook, I talk about one of my MagnetGoals was to learn ballroom dancing. Just working on this let my wife know that I valued her and loved her.
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