I guess it should make sense: successful fundraisers need to be good storytellers. But as they say, your greatest strength can become your greatest weakness. Rather than using that storytelling imagination to imagine reasons why the donor might want to give, we often build stories about why this is a bad time to ask for money. And we can be quite convincing!
The good news is that if we're already telling ourselves negative stories, we already have the skills needed to tell ourselves positive ones! As you start practicing telling yourself reasons why someone will give, it'll probably feel like you're lying to yourself. You may be, but no more than you're lying to yourself with the negative story!
I jokingly call this negative use of our imagination "turning to the dark side." Last week I was able to be in the 501 Videos studio to talk about it for yesterday's Movie Monday.
I also talk about the phrases I use to ask for money. And how practicing these phrases helps me to actually focus on the donor during the appointment!
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