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		<title>[Question Marc] Striking out with grants</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 11:07:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am working for a non-profit and recently have begun writing agency grants as well. This organization in the past has never relied on grants, but instead on funding from two fundraisers and the state and federal monies. However, it seems that all of the foundations we are writing to are coming back and saying [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I am working for a non-profit and recently have begun writing agency grants as well. This organization in the past has never relied on grants, but instead on funding from two fundraisers and the state and federal monies. </p>
<p>However, it seems that all of the foundations we are writing to are coming back and saying that they are not funding in the state or we fall outside their parameters or no reason at all. </p>
<p>We are using a web-based software called Foundation Search. Any opinions on online searches?
</p></blockquote>
<h3>Here&#8217;s my answer</h3>
<p>I can&#8217;t <i>stand</i> writing grants. To me, grants feel like a crap shoot or playing a one-armed bandit. </p>
<p>That being said, you can&#8217;t just &#8220;apply for grants&#8221; by blindly sending out grant applications. You have to do your homework. That&#8217;s just part of being a professional. It&#8217;s not worth wasting your time or their&#8217;s by applying for a type of project the funder clearly states they aren&#8217;t interested in. </p>
<p>Most foundation clearly states:</p>
<ul>
<li>what types of things they give to,
</li>
<li>where geographically they like to focus their giving, and
</li>
<li>what their funding priorities are. </li>
</ul>
<p>I am not familiar with the web-based software you mentioned, but I really like the Foundation Center&#8217;s <a href="http://fconline.foundationcenter.org/" target="_blank">Foundation Directory Online</a>. You can get incredible information there. I&#8217;m using it for a campaign right now. (If you don&#8217;t like online, you can go to one of the <a href="http://www.foundationcenter.org/about/locations.html" target="_blank">five centers</a> in the USA and many libraries.)</p>
<h3>Use the phone</h3>
<p>One of the best things you can do is call the foundation after doing some initial research. Tell them why you think they&#8217;re a good fit and see if it sounds like something they&#8217;ll look at. </p>
<p>More and more funders are inviting calls. It can be hard to hear a person say your project won&#8217;t fit, but it sure beats wasting a grant application!</p>
<p><i>If this answer was way too basic for you, check out Betsy Baker&#8217;s <a href="http://www.charityhowto.com/cmd.php?Clk=4739979" target="_blank">Grant Writing Masterclass</a> webinar on June 11. This class is NOT for beginners!</i>
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
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		<title>2 phrases to use when asking for money</title>
		<link>http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/05/08/2-phrases-to-use-when-asking-for-money/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 12:10:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I normally speak to large groups at conferences or to entire development teams, but I&#8217;ve been privileged to do a lot of one-on-one major gift fundraising training this year. One of the most common questions I am getting from nonprofit employees and board members alike is, &#8220;Ok, the &#8216;Get R.E.A.L.&#8216; formula is nice, but when [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://fundraisingcoach.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/awf_ask-small.png" alt="Phrases for asking for money" title="Ask Without Fear - fundraising step ASK!" width="200" height="57" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-6041" style="margin: 0px 10px 0px 0px" align="left" />I normally speak to large groups at conferences or to entire development teams, but I&#8217;ve been privileged to do a lot of one-on-one major gift fundraising training this year. One of the most common questions I am getting from nonprofit employees and board members alike is, &#8220;Ok, the &#8216;<a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/free-articles/do-it-yourself-fundraising/" target="_blank">Get R.E.A.L.</a>&#8216; formula is nice, but when it comes tom making the ask, what do I say?&#8221; </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a great question. </p>
<p>Fundraising isn&#8217;t a business transaction. Donors aren&#8217;t picking an item off the shelf and going to the cash register. If it were that simple, asking wouldn&#8217;t even be necessary.</p>
<p><strong>Here are the two phrases that are helping people the most:</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>
<h3>&#8220;Would you consider a gift of $X?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Asking is challenging enough. A question like &#8220;would you consider a gift of ____?&#8221; accomplishes two things. First, it takes the pressure off the asker. People visibly relax when they hear that this is a good fundraising phrase. This feels like something they can naturally say. </p>
<p>Second, this phrase encourages askers to use a <i>specific dollar amount</i>. &#8220;Will you support our cause?&#8221; is a vapid cop-out for truly asking for money. One person&#8217;s idea of &#8220;support&#8221; may be $250 when you&#8217;d rated her as a $25,000 prospect. Do the donor prospect the courtesy of plainly telling them what number you&#8217;re thinking about.</p>
<p>A non-confrontational question like &#8220;Would you consider a gift of $25,000?&#8221; accomplishes just that.
</li>
<li>
<h3>&#8220;Honestly, I have <i>NO</i> idea how much to ask you for, but is a gift of $______ something you&#8217;d be able to consider?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Honesty is quite disarming. And despite our best research, peer reviews, and calculated guessing, there are times we really don&#8217;t know how much to ask someone for. So let them know! This is especially powerful for volunteers who&#8217;ve been coached by excellent counsel to ask at a higher level then they feel comfortable asking at.</p>
<p>Most people respond well to requests for help. This is basically a request for help: <i>Could you help me know how much I might ask you for?</i> If you&#8217;re in the ballpark they&#8217;ll tell you. And if you&#8217;re too high, they&#8217;ll tell you too!
</li>
</ol>
<h3>What to say if they ask you how you came up with the specific gift amount</h3>
<p>From time to time, prospects will ask how you determined that number for them. Saying, &#8220;Well, we were looking at your stock holdings and the sale of your last business so $200,000 seemed reasonable&#8221; is an awful explanation. Instead, try using a printout from <a href="http://giftrangecalculator.com/" target="_blank">GiftRangeCalculator.com</a>. <em>&#8220;You see, Bob, the entire project is $4 million. To reach that, we need three leaders at the $200,000 level. You seemed like a great fit.&#8221;</em></p>
<h3>What do you say?</h3>
<p>Those are my favorite phrases for asking for money. What phrases and questions do you like? Tell us in the comments at the bottom of <a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/05/08/2-phrases-to-use-when-asking-for-money/" target="_blank">this post</a>!
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
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		<title>The 3 best times to ask for money</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2012 14:28:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lots of us will be thinking about how to be more &#8220;green&#8221; since today is Earth Day. But how can we make our nonprofits more green? As in taking in more dollars? Ask! You knew that was coming, didn&#8217;t you? Asking for money is where the magic happens! The 3 Best Times to Ask There [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/epsos/3384297473/" title="Green Leaf of a Bio Plant in Nature by epSos.de, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3664/3384297473_7a5f8e7933_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="Green Leaf of a Bio Plant in Nature" align="right" /></a>Lots of us will be thinking about how to be more &#8220;green&#8221; since today is Earth Day.  But how can we make our nonprofits more green? As in <i>taking in</i> more dollars?</p>
<p><b>Ask!</b></p>
<p>You knew that was coming, didn&#8217;t you? Asking for money is where the magic happens! </p>
<h3>The 3 Best Times to Ask</h3>
<p>There are 3 optimum times to ask for a major gift:</p>
<ul>
<li>Before you meant to ask
</li>
<li>When you meant to ask
</li>
<li>After you meant to ask</li>
</ul>
<p>Let&#8217;s look at these in depth.</p>
<h3>Asking before you meant to</h3>
<p>Successful fundraising involves cultivation, time getting to know the donor and letting the donor get to know you. Typically, these aren&#8217;t solicitation meetings. But from time to time, a donor might be so excited, they&#8217;ll indicate the level of their gift. &#8220;I&#8217;d give $30,000 to something like that!&#8221;</p>
<p>You have a choice: move past that comment, or acknowledge it. </p>
<p>You can nod and keep on &#8220;cultivating.&#8221; </p>
<p>Or you can stop and say, &#8220;We didn&#8217;t come here to ask you <em>today</em>&#8230;but since you mentioned that level of gift, would you like to make that commitment today?&#8221;</p>
<p>You have to get a feel for the situation. This is where asking is more art than science. Being honest&#8211; &#8220;We weren&#8217;t here to ask&#8221; &#8212; is incredibly powerful. It can work to even say, &#8220;Would you like to make that today or should we talk about that at a later meeting?&#8221;</p>
<p>I love being able to ask now because it gets us to <em>thanking</em> them so much faster! Thanking is always more fun that trying to get another appointment to set up an ask!</p>
<h3>Asking when you meant to</h3>
<p>It&#8217;s great when you&#8217;ve met a donor prospect, engaged them enough to have a feel for the right ask, asking is so much easier. </p>
<p>When you set up a solicitation appointment, be sure to say you want to get together to &#8220;talk about the project&#8221; or &#8220;discuss your involvement in the project&#8221; so they know the meeting has a purpose. If you set it up like this, getting to the ask is natural.</p>
<p>When that moment does come, ask for the specific dollar amount and then <i>shut up</i>! You need to let them process the ask. So just shut up and wait. They&#8217;ll let you know they&#8217;re done processing because they&#8217;ll be the first people to speak. </p>
<h3>Asking after you meant to</h3>
<p>Everyone chickens out at times. We lie to ourselves saying things like, &#8220;The timing wasn&#8217;t right.&#8221;</p>
<p>But remember: <i>it is far less awkward to ask for money when you meant to then after you meant to.</i></p>
<p>Asking after you intended to means setting up another face-to-face meeting. Something that seems odd. This is where it starts to feel that you only are interested in the person&#8217;s money. But it&#8217;s important to still invite them to consider investing in your cause. So gut it out and get that next appointment!</p>
<h3>Asking will add green to your nonprofit</h3>
<p>Your nonprofit is making our world a better place. It&#8217;s worthy of people&#8217;s donations. So this Earth Day, commit to making your nonprofit more green by asking more often!
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
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		<title>3 Common Questions about 100 Donors in 90 Days</title>
		<link>http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/04/12/3-common-questions-about-100-donors-in-90-days/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 15:04:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4563097" target="_blank"><img src="http://fundraisingcoach.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/100donors-logo-300x111.png" alt="100 Donors in 90 Days" title="100 Donors in 90 Days" width="300" height="111" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-5988" align="right" /></a>Since launching &#8220;<a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/04/09/could-you-use-100-new-donors-in-the-next-90-days/" target="_blank">100 Donors in 90 Days</a>&#8221; on Monday, we&#8217;ve had many folks email and ask us some questions about it.</p>
<p>There have been three main questions asked about the system, I emailed the answers to those on my newsletter list earlier today. But I figured more of you might be wondering so I decided to share them here too.</p>
<h3>Question 1 &#8211; Will &#8220;100 Donors in 90 Days&#8221; work in a small organization or is it just for organizations with large development shops?</h3>
<p><strong>Answer</strong> &#8211; The &#8220;100 Donors&#8221; system was actually created for the smaller shop nonprofits.  Whether you have just a few folks on staff or you&#8217;re a staff of 1 or none, this will help you find more donors.  We designed it to lighten your load a bit, and make it as easy as possible for overworked folks who wear too many hats.  <img src='http://fundraisingcoach.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<h3>Question 2 &#8211; Is it really about finding donors or just more fundraising advice?</h3>
<p><strong>Answer</strong> &#8211; It really is all about finding donors. The Action Guides walk you through what you need to do each week to be able to bring in 100 new donors in the next 90 days. </p>
<p>The one exception would be the first week where Tom Ahern walks you through putting your own simple case for support together. He even walks through a real fundraising letter written by a volunteer at a small nonprofit and explains why it was so successful. Without a strong case for support, no &#8220;system&#8221; in the world will get you donors. So that&#8217;s why we included this module at the beginning. </p>
<h3>Question 3 &#8211; Do you have a free trial?</h3>
<p><strong>Answer</strong> &#8211; No. But we do have a pretty amazing 30-day &#8220;give it a try&#8221; guarantee. We believe you will love this program so we stand behind it unconditionally. If you don&#8217;t start seeing results from the &#8220;100 Donors in 90 Days&#8221; system within 30 days we will refund all your money, hassle-free. And I mean &#8220;hassle free.&#8221; Call me up or send me an email saying you&#8217;d like your money back and I&#8217;ll make sure you get it. It&#8217;s that simple. </p>
<h3>One other thing</h3>
<p>I&#8217;ve been told by a couple people that Tom Ahern&#8217;s module (week 1) is worth the the price all by itself. As I said above, he&#8217;ll walk you through putting a simple and highly effective case for support together. </p>
<p>I hope that helps answer some of your questions. </p>
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<p><em>The special introductory offer of $50 off lasts until next Friday, April 20. But the bonus of 10 free movies on stewarding donors ends tomorrow so it&#8217;s best to get the program today. </em></p>
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t turn to the &#8220;dark side&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/04/10/dont-turn-to-the-dark-side/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 12:01:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We fundraisers are a fascinating group of talented individuals. But this year, I&#8217;m seeing many of us talk ourselves out of asking for money, even when the donors have told us they&#8217;ll give! I guess it should make sense: successful fundraisers need to be good storytellers. But as they say, your greatest strength can become [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/oswaldo/423734418/" title="Darth Vader by oswaldo, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.staticflickr.com/165/423734418_aff6138b8b_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="Darth Vader" align="right"/></a>We fundraisers are a fascinating group of talented individuals. But this year, I&#8217;m seeing many of us talk ourselves out of asking for money, even when the donors have told us they&#8217;ll give!</p>
<p><strong>I guess it should make sense: successful fundraisers need to be good storytellers.</strong> But as they say, your greatest strength can become your greatest weakness. Rather than using that storytelling imagination to imagine reasons why the donor might want to give, we often build stories about why this is a bad time to ask for money. And we can be quite convincing!</p>
<p>The good news is that if we&#8217;re already telling ourselves negative stories, we already have the skills needed to tell ourselves positive ones! As you start practicing telling yourself reasons why someone will give, it&#8217;ll probably feel like you&#8217;re lying to yourself. You may be, but no more than you&#8217;re lying to yourself with the negative story!</p>
<p>I jokingly call this negative use of our imagination &#8220;turning to the dark side.&#8221; Last week I was able to be in the 501 Videos studio to talk about it for yesterday&#8217;s <a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4684422" target="_blank">Movie Monday</a>.  </p>
<p>I also talk about the phrases I use to ask for money. And how practicing these phrases helps me to actually focus on the donor during the appointment!</p>
<p>You can see the entire three and a half minute video at:<br />
<a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4684422" target="_blank">http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4684422</a>
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
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		<title>Could you use 100 new donors in the next 90 days?</title>
		<link>http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/04/09/could-you-use-100-new-donors-in-the-next-90-days/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 10:49:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As the one-person development office at a rural hospital, my CEO kept asking me: &#8220;Why are we going back to the same people? When are you going to find new people?&#8221; He wasn&#8217;t impressed by all the statistical and logical answers about donor retention and most of the money coming from those who already love [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As the one-person development office at a rural hospital, my CEO kept asking me: &#8220;Why are we going back to the same people? When are <i>you</i> going to find new people?&#8221;</p>
<p>He wasn&#8217;t impressed by all the statistical and logical answers about donor retention and most of the money coming from those who already love us. He glazed over like I was trying to trick him with smoke and mirrors. Honestly, it even sounded to me like I was making excuses.</p>
<p><b>I wish I&#8217;d had <a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4563097" target="_blank">100 Donors in 90 Days</a> back then!</b></p>
<p><a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4563097" target="_blank"><img src="http://fundraisingcoach.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/100donors-logo-300x111.png" alt="100 Donors in 90 Days" title="100 Donors in 90 Days" width="300" height="111" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-5988" align="right" /></a><br />
<h3><a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4563097" target="_blank">100 Donors in 90 Days</a></h3>
<p>Last fall, I started brainstorming with the folks at 501 Videos and with Pamela Grow. We wanted to put together an extremely practical tool that would help one-person development shops. Something that would help you expand your database.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4563097" target="_blank">100 Donors in 90 Days</a> is the result!</p>
<h3>30 minutes a day</h3>
<p>We interviewed a dozen of the top fundraising experts from around the world, asking them for one or two incredibly practical ways you could add a dozen new donors each week. We recorded these conversations. And we asked each expert to create an action guide to help you put their ideas into practice during the week. Some of them are so step-by-step you hardly have to think about what to do!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4563097" target="_blank"><img src="http://fundraisingcoach.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/100Donors.Action-Guides-sm-300x160.jpg" alt="100 Donors in 90 Days - Action Guides" title="100 Donors in 90 Days - Action Guides" width="450" height="240" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-5989" /></a><br />
In addition to conversations with Pamela Grow and myself, we interviewed:</p>
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<li>Tom Ahern
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<li>Ken Burnett
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<li>Amy Eisentstein
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<li>Gail Perry
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<li>John Haydon
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<li>David Mersky
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<li>Mazarine Treyz
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<li>Andrea Kihlstedt
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<li>Shanon Doolittle
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<li>and Kerri Tilby
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<h3>One fundraising expert each week</h3>
<p>Each week after you buy <a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4563097" target="_blank">100 Donors in 90 Days</a>, you&#8217;ll hear our conversation with one of the experts. They&#8217;ll share a couple really easy things you can do to find new donors. These recordings become yours. You can keep going back to listen to them over and over again.</p>
<p>But if you&#8217;re like me, conversations alone aren&#8217;t much help. <em>Acting</em> on the conversations is when the magic happens.</p>
<h3>One action guide each week!</h3>
<p>So we&#8217;ve worked with each expert to provide you an action guide <i>each week, for 12 weeks</i>!</p>
<p>These action guides will fill out the steps talked about in the conversation, provide links, and help you find at least 100 new donors in the next 90 days!</p>
<h3>$50 off this week only!</h3>
<p>This program is a steal at $149. But as a special offer to FundraisingCoach.com readers, 501 Videos is offering it for $50 off this week only! </p>
<p>Getting 100 new donors is powerful for any nonprofit. Even if your shop is bigger than one person, think of what 100 new donors in the next 90 days could mean for you!</p>
<p>As part of this special first week, 501 Videos is even throwing in 10 <a href="http://www.MovieMondays2.com/" target="_blank">Movie Mondays</a> episodes on stewarding donors! Not only will you attract new donors, you&#8217;ll be able to keep them!</p>
<h3>No more awkward conversations with your boss or board</h3>
<p>12 weeks of practical, easy to follow tips and techniques will give you a solid answer when your boss or board asks, &#8220;Who are our new donors?&#8221;</p>
<p>To get your discounted copy of <a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4563097" target="_blank">100 Donors in 90 Days</a> and the bonus videos, go to <a href="http://www.501videos.com/cmd.php?Clk=4563097" target="_blank"><b>www.100Donorsin90Days.com</b><b></b></a> right now!
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
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		<title>Are your politics hindering your fundraising?</title>
		<link>http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/03/27/politicking-hinders-fundraising/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 12:05:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few weeks ago I sent a version of this to my Fundraising Kick subscribers. But I&#8217;m seeing someting that will seriously impair your fundraising so I wanted to share it with you too. Fundraisers: Stop the political vitriol! If we live in a democracy, we need to be active. We need to participate in [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/14544320@N05/2293212674/" title="chubby soapbox by daretoeatapeach, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3273/2293212674_48b205c480_m.jpg" align="right" width="210" height="240" alt="chubby soapbox"/></a><i>A few weeks ago I sent a version of this to my <a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/fundraisingkick/" target="_blank">Fundraising Kick</a> subscribers. But I&#8217;m seeing someting that will seriously impair your fundraising so I wanted to share it with you too.</i></p>
<h3>Fundraisers: Stop the political vitriol!</h3>
<p>If we live in a democracy, we need to be active. We need to participate in the politics of our communities and countries. But as fundraisers, we need to be very, very tactful. And careful.</p>
<p><b>Unless your cause is political, your politics can seriously hinder your fundraising. </b></p>
<p>Here’s an example from the USA that will surely irritate some of you. Apologies in advance. (Links to the source data will be at the end of this post.)</p>
<h3>You may be &#8220;right&#8221; but your most generous donors probably won&#8217;t agree</h3>
<p>Let’s say you’re a Democrat. You think all Republicans are non-thinking, homophobic, reactionary idiots who want to throw us back to the Dark Ages. (Honestly, I’ve seen those words used by fundraising professionals and consultants in the last week!)</p>
<p>Being civically engaged, you tweet your views. Even during work hours. </p>
<p>Chances are your colleagues agree with you. Chances are you are more or less talking into an echo chamber during the work day. (Just as much as the other people that get all their news from Fox News are more or less living in an echo chamber.) </p>
<p>Watch out.</p>
<p>Your slamming conservatives saying they want to send us back into the &#8220;Dark Ages&#8221; may leak into your conversations with your board or donors. But chances are if you have 9 people in a room: 3 of them are Republican, 3 are Democrat, and 3 are independent. A study just a few weeks ago showed there are <a href="http://www.rasmussenreports.com/public_content/politics/mood_of_america/partisan_trends" target="_blank">36% of Americans calling themselves Republican and only 32% calling themselves Democrat</a>. </p>
<p>More importantly for your fundraising, in the USA, studies have been done showing that <a href="http://philanthropy.com/article/Charitys-Political-Divide/54871/" target="_blank">Republicans are more generous donors than Democrats</a>. Or rather, Republicans are more generous with their own money; Democrats more generous with government money. </p>
<p>Which source would your nonprofit prefer to get gifts from?</p>
<h3>Don’t slam your best donors</h3>
<p>You are free to say whatever you want. But do so realizing how your best donors might take it. If your work is largely government funded, learn to tell your story in a way that resonates with fiscal conservatives. </p>
<p>Whether you agree with them or not. <a href="http://www.rasmussenreports.com/public_content/politics/general_politics/january_2012/42_are_fiscal_conservatives_11_liberal_on_money_issues " target="_blank">42% of Americans consider themselves “fiscal conservatives” about government spending</a>. </p>
<h3>Shut up and listen</h3>
<p>One of the best ways to learn to tell your nonprofit’s story in a way that will resonate with people with a different world view is to be quiet and listen to them. Ask them why they support your charity. Find out what got them interested in the first place.</p>
<p>When you meet with them <i>listen to the words they use to describe what you do -— especially the words and phrases you don’t normally use yourself.</i></p>
<h3>Stay passionate. Be wise.</h3>
<p>This isn&#8217;t just Democrat vs. Republican. It goes for any divide: conservatives and liberals, PETA people and carnivores, Microsoft fan boys and Apple devotees.</p>
<p>Your passions are good. They are what set you apart. </p>
<p>But democracy is made up of lots of people with different beliefs finding a middle way.</p>
<p>So I wanted to remind you this common sense message: Be passionate, celebrate diversity, and fundraise wisely.</p>
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Source Data (Proof that I’m not making this stuff up!)<br />
- One such study was in the Chronicle of Philanthropy a few years back: <a href="http://philanthropy.com/article/Charitys-Political-Divide/54871/" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/GRu4kL</a> looks like you need a subscription to read it.</p>
<p>- 36% Republican; 32% Democrat<br />
<a href="http://www.rasmussenreports.com/public_content/politics/mood_of_america/partisan_trends" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/GQo28n</a> </p>
<p>- 42% fiscal conservatives <a href="http://www.rasmussenreports.com/public_content/politics/general_politics/january_2012/42_are_fiscal_conservatives_11_liberal_on_money_issues" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/GPaMiL</a></p>
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
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		<title>Fundraising secrets aren&#8217;t so secret</title>
		<link>http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/02/20/fundraising-secrets-arent-so-secret/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 12:14:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am fond of saying that &#8220;fundraising is an extreme sport.&#8221; Like great athletes, fundraisers need to focus on the basics. At Blog World Expo last November I got to do a live interview with Susan McLennan about those basics, treating people with respect, and an easy way to do a &#8220;thankathon.&#8221; Watch the entire [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am fond of saying that &#8220;fundraising is an extreme sport.&#8221; Like great athletes, fundraisers need to focus on the basics. </p>
<p>At Blog World Expo last November I got to do a live interview with Susan McLennan about those basics, treating people with respect, and an easy way to do a &#8220;thankathon.&#8221; </p>
<p>Watch the entire interview here:<br />
<iframe width="425" height="246" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/EWM36L7lumc?rel=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p><i>Buy the book or DVD at the <a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/ask-without-fear/" target="_blank"><i>Ask Without Fear!</i> page</a> on FundraisingCoach.com.</i>
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
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		<title>Nonprofit fundraising &amp; Groundhog Day&#8217;s Ned Ryerson</title>
		<link>http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/02/02/nonprofit-fundraising-groundhog-days-ned-ryerson/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 13:57:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy Groundhog Day! It&#8217;s become my Groundhog Day tradition to repost my 2008 post: Fundraising Secret #11: Don&#8217;t Be A Ned. Enjoy! (And don&#8217;t be a Ned!) Fundraising Secret #11: Don&#8217;t be a Ned Click on the image to watch the clip. Does this sound like your fundraising efforts? Ned: Phil? Phil Connors? Phil Connors, [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy Groundhog Day! It&#8217;s become my Groundhog Day tradition to repost my 2008 post: <a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/2008/01/29/fundraising-secret-11-dont-be-a-ned/">Fundraising Secret #11: Don&#8217;t Be A Ned</a>. Enjoy! (And don&#8217;t be a Ned!)</p>
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<strong>Fundraising Secret #11: Don&#8217;t be a Ned</strong><br />
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xwCy_ai_E0" target="_blank"><img src="http://fundraisingcoach.com/images/nedryerson.jpg" alt="annoying salesman" img style="margin: 0px 0px 0px 0px" align="center" /></a><br />
<i>Click on the image to watch the clip.</i></p>
<p>Does this sound like your fundraising efforts?</p>
<blockquote><p>
<strong>Ned:</strong> Phil? Phil Connors? Phil Connors, I thought that was you! </p>
<p><strong>Phil: </strong>Hi, thanks for watching. [Starts to walk away] </p>
<p><strong>Ned:</strong> Hey now, don&#8217;t you tell me you don&#8217;t remember me &#8217;cause I sure as heckfire remember you. </p>
<p><strong>Phil:</strong> Not a chance. </p>
<p><strong>Ned:</strong> Ned&#8230; Ryerson. &#8220;Needlenose Ned&#8221;? &#8220;Ned the Head&#8221;? C&#8217;mon, buddy. Case Western High. I did the whistling belly-button trick at the high school talent show? Bing. Ned Ryerson, got the shingles real bad senior year, almost didn&#8217;t graduate? Bing, again. Ned Ryerson, I dated your sister Mary Pat a couple of times until you told me not to anymore? Well? </p>
<p><strong>Phil:</strong> Ned Ryerson? </p>
<p><strong>Ned:</strong> BING! </p>
<p><strong>Phil:</strong> Bing. </p>
<p><strong>Ned:</strong> Do you have life insurance, Phil? Because if you do, you could always use a little more, I mean, who couldn&#8217;t? But let me tell something &#8211; I got&#8217;s a feeling [whistles] you ain&#8217;t got any. Am I right or am I right or am I right? Right, right right.
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<p>I crack up every time I see this scene!</p>
<p>Phil is so completely self-absorbed and utterly uninterested in Ned, let alone what Ned&#8217;s selling. And Ned&#8217;s so completely absorbed with selling insurance, he&#8217;s not reading Phil&#8217;s very clear signs of indifference.</p>
<p>Please, don&#8217;t be a Ned.</p>
<p>Our donors have had it &#8220;up to here&#8221; with marketing and sales and promises from people that don&#8217;t care about them. </p>
<p>Learn to care.</p>
<p>Our donors, like us, are real people with real concerns about real lives. And your nonprofit isn&#8217;t at the center of their real lives. Nor should it be.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s our job to help get our organization on their radar screen. But rather than going after anyone that can fog a mirror, it&#8217;s more helpful for your fundraising efforts to figure out what type of person <i>already</i> gives to you.</p>
<ul>
<li>Men or women?
</li>
<li>WWII generation? Silent Generation? Boomer? Xer? Millenial?
</li>
<li>What draws them to your mission?
</li>
<li>How are they first introduced to your organization?
</li>
</ul>
<p>I&#8217;d venture to guess it&#8217;s <i>not</i> by accosting them on the street in the middle of a cold February day. (Or on the phone. Or in the mail.)</p>
<p>So as you start this new year, commit to taking the time to do the hard <a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/blog/category/research/" target="_blank">research</a> to get to know your current donors. And commit to <a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/blog/category/engage/" target="_blank">engaging</a> with donors and donor prospects to get to know them, and to let them get to know you, before you ask. </p>
<p>And whatever you do, <i>please</i>, <b>don&#8217;t be a Ned!</b>
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
<p>
<p><b>Get 100 donors in the next 12 weeks? Learn how: <a href="http://bit.ly/100in90" target="_blank">100 Donors in 90 Days</a>! </b></p>
<p>Other Possibly Related posts:<ol>
<li><a href='http://fundraisingcoach.com/2009/02/02/a-salute-to-ground-hog-day/' rel='bookmark' title='A Salute to Ground Hog Day'>A Salute to Ground Hog Day</a></li>
<li><a href='http://fundraisingcoach.com/2007/01/30/how-are-the-100-days/' rel='bookmark' title='How are the 100 Days?'>How are the 100 Days?</a></li>
<li><a href='http://fundraisingcoach.com/2008/01/29/fundraising-secret-11-dont-be-a-ned/' rel='bookmark' title='Fundraising Secret #11: Don&#8217;t be a Ned'>Fundraising Secret #11: Don&#8217;t be a Ned</a></li>
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		<title>How to create a road map for your goals</title>
		<link>http://fundraisingcoach.com/2012/01/30/how-to-create-a-road-map-for-your-goals/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 00:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marc A. Pitman</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The first month of the year is gone! Now is a great time to review your goals. (I have blogged about goal setting here.) As you review your goals, you may find your behind on some. Creating a road map will help jump start those goals. To create a goals road map follow this simple [...]
Other Possibly Related posts:<ol>
<li><a href='http://fundraisingcoach.com/2011/09/02/writing-goals-and-focusing-your-subconscious/' rel='bookmark' title='Writing goals and focusing your subconscious'>Writing goals and focusing your subconscious</a></li>
<li><a href='http://fundraisingcoach.com/2004/02/02/creating-donor-evangelists-create-community/' rel='bookmark' title='Creating Donor Evangelists: Create Community'>Creating Donor Evangelists: Create Community</a></li>
<li><a href='http://fundraisingcoach.com/2004/03/02/creating-donor-evangelists-create-a-cause/' rel='bookmark' title='Creating Donor Evangelists: Create a Cause'>Creating Donor Evangelists: Create a Cause</a></li>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/kittysfotos/6362818709/" title="Half way looking at the road map by Kitty Terwolbeck, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6236/6362818709_d7deb197c5_m.jpg" width="240" height="160" alt="Half way looking at the road map" align="right"/></a>The first month of the year is gone! Now is a great time to review your goals. (I have blogged about <a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/2010/12/07/goal-setting-for-personal-and-professional-development/" target="_blank">goal setting here</a>.)</p>
<p>As you review your goals, you may find your behind on some. Creating a <a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/magnet-goals" target="_blank">road map</a> will help jump start those goals. </p>
<p>To create a goals road map follow this simple 5-step process:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<h3>Write out your goal</h3>
<p>What is it you want to accomplish? Make sure the goal is worded so that it is:</p>
<ul>
<li><b>Specific</b>
</li>
<li><b>Measurable</b>
</li>
<li><b>Action oriented</b>
</li>
<li><b>Results oriented</b>
</li>
<li><b>Time sensitive</b></li>
</ul>
<p>Remember, a goal without a deadline is only a fantasy!</p>
</li>
<li>
<h3>List out what steps have to happen</h3>
<p>Take the time to list out <i>everything</i> that needs to happen in order to accomplish the goal. Add a date by when each step needs to happen so you can reach your goal on time.</p>
</li>
<li>
<h3>List out everyone who can help with each step</h3>
<p>After each step, list out the strategic alliances, people, and resources that can help make it happen. Do you need a department directors help in getting a step done? List her name. Is there an association or committee that can help with the next step? Write it down. Will a class or book help? Write that down too.</p>
</li>
<li>
<h3>Brainstorm obstacles that might occur</h3>
<p>What could stand in your way of accomplishing your goal? Right down as many obstacles as you can think of.</p>
<p>I used to think this was a bad idea. Why use imagination so negatively?</p>
<p>But now I see this is realistic. Obstacles always happen when someone attempts a goal worth pursuing. Listing them out neutralizes them, helping us keep up our momentum. So get them on paper. And list out the people that can help you overcome them.</p>
</li>
<li>
<h3>Write the name of your coach or accountability person</h3>
<p>Sometimes we can be our own worst enemy when we’re trying something of value. Having a person outside of our organization who’ll hold us accountable for our goals is invaluable. We are less likely to make excuses to them than we are to make them to ourselves. </p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>This process works as well for accomplishing professional goals as it does for creating solicitation strategies for top major gift prospects!</p>
<p>Following these steps will help make sure you can cross out your goals as &#8220;achieved&#8221;!</p>
<p><i>To get the free MagnetGoals ecourse, or to purchase the workbook, go to: <a href="http://fundraisingcoach.com/magnet-goals/" target="_blank">http://fundraisingcoach.com/magnet-goals/</a></i>
<p>(c)  <a href="http://www.FundraisingCoach.com" target="_blank">The Fundraising Coach, LLC</a></p>
<p>
<p><b>Get 100 donors in the next 12 weeks? Learn how: <a href="http://bit.ly/100in90" target="_blank">100 Donors in 90 Days</a>! </b></p>
<p>Other Possibly Related posts:<ol>
<li><a href='http://fundraisingcoach.com/2011/09/02/writing-goals-and-focusing-your-subconscious/' rel='bookmark' title='Writing goals and focusing your subconscious'>Writing goals and focusing your subconscious</a></li>
<li><a href='http://fundraisingcoach.com/2004/02/02/creating-donor-evangelists-create-community/' rel='bookmark' title='Creating Donor Evangelists: Create Community'>Creating Donor Evangelists: Create Community</a></li>
<li><a href='http://fundraisingcoach.com/2004/03/02/creating-donor-evangelists-create-a-cause/' rel='bookmark' title='Creating Donor Evangelists: Create a Cause'>Creating Donor Evangelists: Create a Cause</a></li>
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